Dating drug addict, making it work
If an addict cannot handle being sober for one year, I would fear for your physical safety and your sanity if you were dating him as caring for someone who continues to relapse is exhausting. So, I try be brave and remember to love others Bad boys who ran with tough crowds, who cursed and were unpredictable.
Bree Marie is the pseudonym of a woman who lives in Delaware County, Pennsylvania. All the while, masquerading as a "successful" business owner that wouldn't exist without the money he took from his wife.
One time, i phoned her to serenade her to sleep, trying to be sweet.
I accept his decision but now need to focus on my ownself and why i tolerated his behaviour for so long. Because it's never about you and always about them.
We were talking weekends away and spending more time together until one night of bad sex led to his disappearance. THEN it all started to come undone. You reread every text.
Proceeding with Caution
I wish I did. When I did find out, he said I would be the reason he would stop, that I was his world, and he didn't want to lose me over drugs.
You may not remember but someone had written a comment on Psychology Today about their own experience with living with an alcoholic. Whether or not this happens has nothing to do with you. Loss of appetite is one side effect of cocaine use and a person using cocaine may begin to lose weight so rapidly that the change in appearance is impossible to ignore. He had dating drug addict relationships in the past, but in the end he simply could not follow through.
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I worried that he dating drug addict die. To avoid codependency, enabling and other problematic patterns, you may need to seek counseling of your own.
But that doesn't mean it can't work-- as long as the partner has a good sense of self. He is a wolf in sheep's clothing.
To addicts, the drugs are just. Men and women learn a lot in recovery, not just about staying sober but living a happy, satisfying life.