Guy im dating has lots of female friends
Create new account First Name. Is it just a matter of me working on my insecurity? At the same time, I tended to remain friends with my exes more often than not.
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I get what you are saying but i also wonder how these married guy friends have so much free time to spend with you? I feel that you are right, of course people have their off days, but there is a major difference between being a little crabby or unfocused with someone and being rude or mean on purpose. I would still like to get to know her and have invited her to things, but she has mostly faded out at this point, too.
But he doesn't because he wants to be with you. If I were in your shoes, I'd take every change to get to know his friends more and get past the "I'm the new girl" mental hangup.
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I'm like this, most of the people I've dated have been like this. Hi, I am the lady version of your boyfriend.
Keep your friends close and your potential competition closer, but for the love of God, do not succumb to soccer. May 1, at 1: If there is a reason to think him unworthy, you have not communicated it to us above. I married your boyfriend. I would definitely read serious insecurity with the way and fact that most of my exes, or women i've had some kind of relations with are still friends with me as some fairly gross combination of insecurity and immaturity. I see no red flags with this.
Recognize he is going out of his way to put you at ease, so he's likely a keeper. Would it help to hear something from the perspective of one such "ex-girlfriend-who-is-now-a-friend" and what we probably think about guys like your boyfriend? It's guy im dating has lots of female friends to feel your feelings, examine them, tell yourself all the rational reasons you don't need to worry, and then allow those feelings to float away at least this is basically how my therapist explains it. I get where you are coming from but at the same time if you know that whenever your guy friends get into a relationship you get less and less.
Yet, I highly doubt it. If thy are emotionally close then it is like they are in an emotional relationship and i find that that leads to a physical relationship at some point.
I like that he's able to relate to women as friends. Also, because these were people he chose to date in the past and still kept as friends, they have something in common with him and have some redeeming value - so it's no surprise that I like hanging out with many of them too.
I promise you that awesome guys who don't cheat on their girlfriends with their female friends exist.
Operative word being most. I just want to second that it's okay to feel the way you do - lots of people do, and both me and my husband are the same "type" as you when it comes to this.
It feels like they're waiting for us to break up. But as a stranger, looking at this in the abstract, it sounds to me like it would be worth you doing some really focused work on your insecurities.
Especially when you have a stubborn boyfriend like I do. No stalking, crazy behaviour, destruction of property.
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He sounds like a good guy. Just something to think about. Will I be able and willing to reassert it? Create new account Request new password.
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I know that he is able to have long-term, important platonic relationships with women. I was always a believer in platonic relationships between the two sexes and I still am.
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